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Author Topic: Teen daughter getting into fights at school  (Read 1156 times)
gmolina237
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« on: September 25, 2008, 04:32:30 PM »

We have a daughter(my step daughter) who keeps getting into fights at school.  The first time she said it was not her fault and she was suspended from school for 3 days! She is (or was) on the cheerleading team and now has gotten into another fight and was arrested at school and read her rights. She will now be suspended for 5 days from school and if it happens again she will be expelled. She is only 13 going on 20, but we are not sure how to handel the issue. She has had a rough past with her mother who will hopefully stay out of her life for good now. Her mothers boyfriend is now a registered sexofender as he did unspeakable things to our daughter. I know she has anger issues as should be expected due to her mother staying with this man by his side and taking his word over her children.  We want to make sure our daughter knows that we love her and stand by her when she needs us but at the same time we need her to understand that she can't get into any more fights at school! We want to make sure we have the upper hand before she gets into highschool and spirals down the wrong path. We would love any advice that can be given to try and assist us with how to handle this very delicate situation.  Undecided
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« Reply #1 on: December 27, 2009, 08:10:27 PM »

sounds awesome man, school finishs for christmas holidays in a week for me, so will definately smash as much time as i can into this.

ideas already flowing my brother
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« Reply #2 on: January 02, 2010, 03:20:12 PM »

She should be involved with counseling to help with being a victim of sexual abuse, anger issues and her mother.  I would guess that the fighting is secondary to the anger.  The fighting probably will not stop until she learns anger management.  More than likely she will not want counseling but is really in need.  This is not just a matter that she is dealing with as it effects the whole family so maybe family counseling should be scheduled.  You all need suppport and hope that you take advantage of whatever is available.
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